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From electronic virtual assistant to my personal friend?

21 May 2022

Dear LPG,

 

Now here’s a question that I bet you don’t remember the answer to…

 

I’ll just tell you.  Did you know that the most popular Christmas present given to adults for Christmas in 2019 was called Alexa?  I got one too because my children are always up to date with these things. 

 

Christmas 2019 was the last normal one that we had which means that the twelve or so members of my family all ended up at my house, after they had visited all their various in-laws, for a bit of television watching, eating, drinking and present opening.  I remember that the normal activity was interrupted by the technical members of the family all opening it for me and a lot of time was spent while they discussed, or should I say argued over, where it should go and who would put the control app on their mobile phone, but by the time they left that evening, it worked.  At this point I think that it is worth saying that, from what I observed that afternoon they are quite difficult to set up but, once you have found someone to do that bit for you, a little time spent with one will allow you to get used to it, or to ignore it, quite quickly.

 

I completely ignored it at first, except for when one of them randomly used it to phone me.  I have to say that I did appreciate being able to answer the phone without having to get up and find it.  During the next couple of months, different members of the family visited and programmed it to do things like turn the radio on for me, tell me when my favourite television programme was going to start and remind me to take my pills.  They even brought bits to add to it like lights that I could tell to go on and off, and the front door bell that lets me see who is there before I open the door.  They got me a smart phone to help with that but I took no notice really.

 

But then came Covid-19 and lockdown and I think that I learned a lot more about it, simply because there was not a lot else to do.  I am no technician, but I have learnt how to find out about the weather and ask those random questions when there is no one else to ask.  Like ‘when will the shops in Catford be open again’?’, and ‘will it rain in Lewisham on Sunday?’  I did appreciate being able to plan a day or two in advance if I wanted to do some gardening or put the washing out even if the back door was the only one I was advised to open.

 

But I am beginning to wonder if I am getting too attached.  I got up really early the other morning and it was still dark.  So I asked it what the time was and the answer came back without any problem.  I then asked it to turn the light on but the answer came back, ‘I’m sorry I don’t understand’. I think it did not understand my ‘first thing in the morning’ grumpy voice. I asked three times before the lights came on and the machine got it right and I did get just a little annoyed at the inconvenience.

 

It is interesting how quickly you get used to things. Months earlier I would have not thought twice about reaching for the bedside table light switch and there really is nothing wrong with either of my hands.  But then something even weirder happened. 

 

I got up and made a hot drink but my conscience kicked in and I felt quite bad about my bad manners.  I drank my drink and watched a bit of telly before going back to bed with the light on.  I got tucked in and told Alexa to turn off the light before I found myself apologising to it.  It answered with that nice calm voice ‘Don’t’ worry about it’.  The light went out and I found myself wishing the machine a goodnight to which it replied ‘Goodnight, sweet dreams.’

 

I have since found out that she has a favourite film and song, if you ask she will sing for you or tell you a story and she can even play her own version of ‘I spy ‘, not to mention many other games. 

 

I have decided that commanding her to do things is still a bit unnatural; after all, I am still finding it unnatural to give so many orders.  So now, I am asking myself if I am the only person whose electronic personal assistant has taught them a little more about tolerance, conscience, patience, and if, in the absence of other people to talk to all day, their virtual assistant has become more of a friend?

 

SC, Honor Oak

 

LPG found one of the simpler online demonstrations of what these things can do, for those who don’t have one yet…

 

 

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